Waiting.. Listening .. Watching

These past weekends I’ve been doing something that I’ve always been afraid to do. I’ve been sitting still. It’s funny how the things that didn’t make a whole lot of sense when I was younger make sense now. I am a doer, always going, always moving. I always make the first move, I always make the plan, I’m always the matriarch. I never wanted to take a moment to just be, probably because In those moments you find out who is important to you and for you, and who is not.

My mom said to me once know who you are stop doing it all let people prove themselves to you.

Sometimes doing nothing is necessary. What is for you will find you. If you are important they will. I never forgot those words but I kept moving, I wonder if it’s because I was afraid of the truth.

Spending my weekends in has been refreshing it has given me a new perspective. It has also allowed me to plan for me. The hardest thing for me to do is nothing, however this certainly is a lesson I needed to learn. Lessons are learned only when you are ready. Nothing happens before it’s time. This is a simple note to say take care of you first.

I hope your weekend was amazing and you are ready to kick the door down in this short work week. Yay to three day work weeks🙌🏾

Comfy Dressing

We in Arizona get over three hundred days of sunshine. Rain in the forecast is a rarity.

When you get rain I’m ecstatic, I know why ecstatics right. I get to recreate my New York style, booties, sweaters, you know warm clothes . I live for this chill in the air makes me feel like we have seasons in Arizona. I hope you enjoy this look. I call it a mixture of comfort and edge 💋

Booties and Bag – Louboutin

Dress – Saks Off Fifth

Sweater – The Limited

The New Chapter

Hi Guys:

It’s been forever and a day since my last post. Here’s a quick recap for the last few months.

I’ve had some Heath issues but they are under control now.

I’ve had some mom and son issues This is a work in progress.

I’ve been traveling a lot. This summer took me to Vegas, Chicago, Milwaukee, New Orleans. I just got back from my birthday trip to Maui.

My other happenings are, I signed with a modeling agency yay! Let’s see what this new venture brings I’m excited. I turned 52 last month can you believe it?!! I can’t.

Last but not least I would say go to my instagram page if you can’t find me but my page was hacked earlier this week so I’m rebuilding. Oh and I cut my hair. Stay tuned as I continue to live this crazy life of mine. My new Instagram page is @positively.denise follow along. This is where you can find daily updates. I hope you all are well 💋